家庭结构视角下婚外情问题研究—以婚外情个案为例

家庭结构视角下婚外情问题探讨以婚外情个案为例 摘要 婚外情自从人类婚姻制度起先时，就始终存在。现代社会，随着生活节奏的加快和其他多种因素的综合影响，婚外情不仅没有削减，反而成为一个比较普遍的现象，同时，婚外情也是当前导致家庭裂开的一个重要缘由。除婚外情本身，婚外情对配偶、子女产生重大的影响。一些家庭于不懂得处理婚外情问题而导致子女产生心理压力，甚至对婚姻产生恐惊。问题的根源可以归结为婚外情导致夫妻感情出现裂痕，以致家庭结构遭到破坏。本论文运用家庭结构视角，在家庭整体的角度分析婚外情问题，通过案例分析来具体地说明婚外情对家庭的影响，以夫妻修复工作坊为介入核心，制定切实可行的介入方案，维护夫妻关系。 关键词婚外情 家庭结构 夫妻关系 修复工作坊 1 ABSTRACT Ever since the affair began when the human institution of marriage, has been in existence. In modern society, with the accelerated pace of life, and the combined effects of other factors, not only did not reduce extramarital affairs, they became a more common phenomenon, while the affair is also currently a major cause of broken families. In addition to an extramarital affair itself, extramarital affairs have a significant impact on the spouse and children. Some families because they do not know how to deal with problems caused by extramarital affairs child psychological stress, and even fear of marriage. Root of the problem can be attributed to an extramarital affair led to marital relations cracks that destroyed the family structure. In this paper, the use of family structure perspective, the perspective of the family as a whole extramarital affairs issues through case to specifically analyze the impact on the family affair, with the couple involved in the repair workshops for the core, to develop practical intervention program, maintaining the marital relationship. Key wordsaffair conjugalrelationgroupofrepairingrelationship family structure 2 目 录 一、问题探讨的源起、目的与意义 ........................... 4 二、关于婚外情问题现有的相关探讨 ......................... 5 三、相关概念 ............................................. 7 婚外恋的定义 .............................................. 7 家庭结构理论视角 .......................................... 7 1、家庭结构.................................................. 7 2、家庭子系统................................................ 8 3、界限...................................................... 8 4、结盟、权利和联盟.......................................... 8 笔者对上述两者的定义 ..................................... 9 四、从家庭结构理论视角看待婚外恋 ......................... 9 案例概况 .................................................. 9 从家庭结构理论视角分析案例 ............................... 10 五、家庭结构理论视角下对问题的介入 ...................... 11 介入思路 ................................................. 11 1.“修复”概念的来及其功能................................ 11 2 .开展夫妻关系修复工作坊可以防止双方盲目离婚............... 12 3 .夫妻关系修复工作坊的要领................................. 13 介入方案 ................................................ 15 1、课程目标................................................ 15 2、具体实施方案............................................. 15 六、总结 ................................................ 20 一 开展夫妻关系修复工作坊的留意事项 .......................... 20 二 论文的不足之处 ............................................ 22 有的学者站在法律的角度探讨婚外情。河南高